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Common Questions

What sort of people are swingers?

Swingers are open-minded individuals, interested in sexual adventure. Since the desire for sexual gratification is inherent in all of us, some choose swinging as an outlet for these desires. Swingers come from all walks of life and in all shapes and forms.

They are among the most open and honest persons you will ever meet. They are generally very friendly and willing to help others. Many of them develop lifelong friendships with other swingers and watch each others families grow up together. For many swinging is as much friendship as it is a sexual thing.

Interested in Swinging, but not 100% sure?

Swinging is like anything else, the first step is the hardest to take. Remember the first time you got behind the wheel of a car or the first time you kissed your spouse? It is your natural fear of the unknown. The best way to get over this is to talk with your partner and then talk with someone who is into swinging. You can contact a swing club member and ask them questions. You will find most are willing to help you with your fears. The majority of swingers are more than happy to help new people learn about this unique lifestyle.

How do I maintain my privacy when corresponding with other Swingers?

We suggest that all swingers maintain privacy until you are comfortable. Establish an email address at a free e-mail site like Hotmail or Yahoo - This gives you the option of remaining anonymous. You may also wish to meet swingers at an organized function (dance, outing, house party). Either way, what you wish to tell someone is up to you.

We do not suggest that you tell people your whole life story, where you work, phone number and so forth, until you feel you know them well enough. We also do not think it is wise to send pictures, home addresses and phone numbers to persons you are writing for the first time.

You may wish to use a "fictitious name" or just initials. This could be your middle name or any other name which people would not normally call you by. This is a relatively accepted practice in the swinging community, and when you feel comfortable or meet, you can tell them the difference.

What about (Dare we say it) AIDS?

AIDS is the new buzzword to stop people from enjoying themselves. Don't get me wrong it is a serious and deadly problem, but do not let this alone deter you from having fun. There have been and always will be venereal diseases. All you have to do is be aware of them and take the proper precautions to prevent infection.

In the swinging community the instances of VD are very low, not non-existent but low. Most swingers are aware of how to prevent infection and take the necessary measures to prevent it.

NEVER let anyone tell you not to use protection. It is a personal choice. If you want to use it and your partner does not, refuse to have intercourse. This is always your option. No one is worth your health for sexual pleasure.